Yo...
Been away a fucking freaking long time...there a lot of thing happened actually this past few weeks that keep me at bay from this dashboard..well now am back!
So what is it about right now...LOVE!!!! Somehow its sound like my friend so called JOAT in his blog...hope he don't mind.
The title said it all...LOVE DOES HURT...AND HURT BIG TIME! You guys must seen some of my previous post before that said about people who complain or talk about their break up so all and so for on their blog and all..(well am not and hope not to turn to be one of those people)
The things is we all gonna go through this period about falling in love,being in love and all that lovey dovey stuff...so why do things that work out so well at first crumble into pieces one by one? How come people who loved each other somehow end up like that?
Well that is love...its really can hurt sometimes....things happened this past few weeks really make me think about definition of love back again. So people out there that thinking about 'being in love and love by someone is nice' well think twice...you can take it at face value..it is not as lovely as you think it is...there are lots of thing that need to be consider when being in a relationship....at what the most important thing that i come to conclude is TRUST!
I think it was the most important part about love...in love with someone meant you really trust that person...so when trust is gone and there are no honesty in the relationship it is gonna crumble into pieces.
Do you agree? For people out there who never been in love or in a relationship before...please don't think it is the end of the world for you guys/girls....What do i believe is there always time for every people out there to be in love or have a relationship and all....its just about finding a right moment and person.Enjoy being single..don't rush into things...thinking you being a loser or left out from all of your fellow friends because you lead a single life..Take it one step at a time..love is not always lovely as you think it is...LOVE DO HURTS!!! And am not saying all love gonna end up hurting you...that why i said 'DO'
This article i dedicated to those people who is single thinking about being in love its all great and stuff...just a reminder for those because love can hurts and hurts big time!!!!!!!Do not rush into things...take it slow......enjoy...and the most important things....keep yourself happy and don't need to care about what others thinks about you!!
And for me..it is a wake up call....i was one of those people who thought that love is lovely and all....I'll take it as a learning experience in the process of growing up.Turning 21 next month somehow i think this failed love its like a closure of my teenage life(some how i think when i turning 21 is when the real step into adult hood begins....hahaha)...there a lot more to come,lot more of shit gonna happened but that is life....what fun bout life if we don't go through all of this. This is what made it fun...the ups and downs in life...experienced it!!!! It will made you become a better person!
One phrase that i always look up in my life is
'Its doesn't matter how you fall...what does matter is,its how you get up'
Hope that my post will make you think about love in a new limelight...and what i wrote was just a thought that don't need an argument just a bit of taste from my experiences...comments are welcome though.
PS/And bout the title it was taken from one of incubus track in their new album...nice song..Guys(girls too) should try and listen to it!
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i also have one article about love. feel free to read it
i know there's someone out there who deserves u, so hang on ok!
ada mamat ni nak bg komen, x blh, dia post kat aku. hampeh
Hmm, al the above was besides the point. thing is I wanted to post a comment on Ashraff's blog but cannot do it without signing in (damn, DAmn, DAMN). My message would be: true Love is something that would come into everyone's life, dont worry. the heartbreak your experiencing now is a learning process to make you wiser.Learn from this episode and dont just wallow in self pity. Thanks Akim :>
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